Of course- there are no two individuals on earth that have the same life experiences. That alone makes us 100% unique. I believe that each person has something to tell us that we will never get except from that person.

Update 1: it's physically impossible for two people to have identical life experiences, just by definition. Even if they do the same things 24/7 (which is unrealistic) they would have a different set of emotions, memories, conclusions, inferences, etc. there are too many variables to list.

I'm pretty sure "listening to my heart" is just code for "listening to my genitals".

If a woman gets tingly in the nether regions, then she's falling in love.

You either want to be controlled and handled by a caregiver who is willing to be on the front lines for you in exchange for some gratitude and appreciation OR you want to take care of yourself and have full control over yourself and your life; why is it so hard for people to make a decision? You can't be in control of your life AND have people take care of you; that would be called codependence...

So if I know someone who is on the fence, or they are trying to create a codependent situation, what do I do to get them off the fence and pick a side?