What is marriage now, or what has it ever been? - just a painful suffering, a long suffering, with false smiling faces. It has simply proved to be a misery. At the most it can be just a convenience.
Love can never really be a great base for marriage because love is fun and play. If you marry someone for love you will be frustrated, because soon the fun is gone and boredom sets in. Marriage is for deep friendship, deep intimacy. Love is implied in it, but it is not alone

Two ladies heard the bishop give a rousing sermon on the beauties of married life. The ladies left the church feeling uplifted and contented.
"It was a fine sermon His Reverence gave us this morning," observed one.
"That it was," agreed the other, "and I wish I knew as little about the matter as he does."

... like alcohol, music works very much on the level of anesthetic! Both are used when emotions are happy or sad... For some it is to remember... for others it's to forget.
However, these two are ALSO often used to accentuate the emotion yet further... taking the 'Highs' higher... and the 'Low's' lower. Which is why for example in the case of music people will not always choose their music to lift their spirit, but rather one that mirrors it and actively prolongs the grieving process until it has run it's course.

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Do you think God's mother would tell him off for the mess he's created?

Wow, actually taking a minute to think about it, it's kind of hard to answer! In a way, things are only as real as you make them. The human mind/brain a a /very/ powerful thing, that to this day not much in known about. The average person's outlook on life is heavily, if not completely, based on their religion, if they are following their religion correctly; so basically, it really depends on what your beliefs are and what you think. You are free to believe what you like! And, if you're like me, it's okay to be unsure or believe more than one thing!

To actually put some input in regards to your question:
I suppose life could be a dream or projection 'forced' upon us, but if it were so, there would have to be a reason. If you're leaning towards believing something like that, you'll probably be able to understand what I mean when I say that if that is the way life is, we are all likely just a divided consciousness that set out to experience this dimensional plane. Now, that might sound stupid to some people, but I'm just stating some things I've retaliated, having grown up with a very spiritual sister. I am not fully sure if it is what I believe, but I think it is interesting nonetheless. On a side note, I like to think there are dimensional planes, for whatever reason I have always believed they exist. And so, to me, they do exist; which is an example of things being as real as you make them. (Another example of that are tulpas, but that's a completely different story.)

If you are not very open minded, like I like to think I am, the above ideas will most likely have just sounded incredibly stupid, but like I said, it's just things I've picked up along the way. There are millions upon billions of different beliefs and combinations of beliefs and/or non-beliefs out there. There is no need to limit yourself or question it, really! Or fight about it! We should all be loving, accepting, and just co-exist with eachother as human beings working toward a common goal! For me, I like to just accept that I'll likely never be sure how I got here, why, or where I'm going; but life is a journey that I want to use to my advantage, learn as much as I can, and fully experience. If you're always worried about what life really is, or your meaning in it, you'll probably make yourself upset, as I have before.

So, my best helpful advice is: Don't worry about it too much; just experience life and do the things you want to do, and if you're really curious, Google anything! Google is always there to give you tons more ideas to mull over, and there are tons of people out there who are willing to converse about different spirituality/religion ideas with you!

ॐ 😎 Hi from France 😔 ♫ ॐ

In this case, if I don't move, take my pulse ! Or with a mirror close my nose, verify if I breathe / if there is some fogging.

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Cat.